Hoping the inside is as lovely. #sourdough
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The Book Lover
How’s that?
Emotional labor is often invisible to men because a lot of it happens out of their sight.
Emotional labor is when my friends and I carefully coordinate to make sure that nobody who’s invited to the party has drama with anyone else at the party, and then everyone comes and has a great time and has no idea how much thought went into it.
- Emotional labor is when I have to cope, again, with the distress I feel at having to clean myself in a dirty bathroom or cook my food in a dirty kitchen because my male roommate didn’t think it was important to clean up his messes.
- Emotional labor is having to start the 100th conversation with my male roommate about how I need my living space to be cleaner.
- Emotional labor is reminding my male roommate the next day that he agreed to clean up his mess but still hasn’t.
- Emotional labor is reassuring him that it’s okay, I’m not mad, I understand that he’s had a very busy stressful week.
Canoe
photo by Minayoshi Takada, 1950
Jacques Henri Lartigue

*eyeroll* what a woman is attracted to actually changes throughout a woman’s monthly cycle. Superficially any person might find someone rando attractive regardless of their personality. However eventually personality and intelligence will factor in. Just sayin’.










